Story behind the photo: What really happened behind this 'perfect' Paris travel pic

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One of the biggest reasons people talk themselves out of traveling is the belief that the trip has to be perfect — or it’s not worth the time, money, or effort. But here’s the truth: even when your friends post those flawless vacation photos, they’re not sharing what actually happened that day. And you might be canceling your dream trip for the wrong reason, because there’s no such thing as a perfect trip.

 

That’s why we’re starting a series called, “Story behind the photo.” Follow along as we share that behind the scenes, behind every beautiful snapshot, is a real moment — sometimes messy, sometimes chaotic, sometimes hilarious — but always human. Imperfection doesn’t ruin a trip. More often, it’s what makes the experience unforgettable.

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Paris 2023: Our not‑so‑perfect day

We truly loved our time in Paris, but the city had other plans for us. So much so, that we wondered if we were in a YouTube video called, “Things that go wrong in Paris:”

• The Paris garbage strike of 2023 left trash piled on street corners.  

• Olympic construction clogged traffic and closed attractions.  

• We didn’t yet understand the magic of WhatsApp in Europe and were relying on a portable WiFi device that kept dying.  

• And for the first time abroad, my husband got sick — on the exact day we were supposed to tour the Louvre and the Eiffel Tower.​

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Now that you know the context, here’s what was really happening in the photo:

We had hired a photographer for Eiffel Tower family photos … and couldn’t find her. After an hour of searching through crowds — while my husband sat on a cement wall with his eyes closed, trying not to be sick — we gave up, lost our booking fee, and asked a stranger to take the picture.

 

Then we walked several blocks to retrieve our skip‑the‑line tickets from an agency we couldn’t locate. Our rented WiFi device died (which led to us getting our own device going forward). Our ticket money was gone. We tried our luck at the Eiffel Tower anyway, only to learn the wait was two hours. I watched my husband slump at the thought of standing that long.

 

In the end, we bribed our kids with McDonald’s (breaking our “no McDonald’s abroad” rule) and headed back to the hotel so he could rest. We couldn’t help asking ourselves, “Is Paris worth visiting with kids?”

 

And you know what?  It is.

 

We don’t consider it a Paris travel disaster. We still remember the trip fondly, and we’d go back. A couple days later, we took a French bakery class where we learned to make croissants and Madeleines — a highlight that sparked our love for cooking classes on every trip since.

 

The real lesson?

 

It’s okay if things go wrong if you can salvage a nice photo. Just kidding. It’s this: Book the trip anyway.  

 

You can’t guarantee perfection, but you can guarantee new experiences, new stories, and new confidence — the kind that stays with you long after the photo is taken.

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